I Will, #3
March 28th, 2007 by
James
Psalm 100:3
I will walk in my house with a blameless heart
There’s an old saying that I used to hear a lot when I was growing up - “Charity begins at home.” I used to think it meant that we should all give each other gifts all the time. Now I know what it really means. Check out this TLB translation:
How I need Your help,
especially in my own home,
where I long to act as I should!
Here’s what it comes down to: If you struggle with the connection between your faith in Jesus and your actions in your home, when you are on your own or with your family, then there is a real problem. I know this because I struggled with it for a long time. I used to hate hearing those two words - ‘character’ and ‘integrity’ - because I knew the definition; my character being who I really am when nobody is watching, and my integrity being reflection of the qualities and standards I profess with my mouth.
Unfortunately, at home is where it’s often the hardest to live a life that accurately reflects what we say and what we believe. At home is where we are the most real, and our guard is down because it’s our comfort zone. We sometimes think that it won’t matter too much, telling ourselves “My wife will understand; I’m just not a morning person, and that’s why I’m grumpy and that’s how it is” or “I feel so worn out at the end of the day that the last thing I want to do is have a deep and meaningful conversation with anyone.”
Fortunately for us, David understood a principle here that, even though it is scary, reassures us somewhat because it shows that everybody struggles with it. And that principle is this: We will never be in public what we are not in private. Who we are when no one is watching is very important when we walk in a cursed world where people are watching us. And so the prayer he prayed in Psalm 100:2 becomes so relevant for today; we need God’s help to act as He wants us to act, starting with in our own homes.
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